—Dr. Warren G. Bennis (MIT, Harvard, Boston, and USC Distinguished Professor and author of over 25 books on leadership)
Management can be defined as exerting control over others by making others submissive to our authority, discipline, or persuasion. Leadership can be defined as showing the way by conducting, escorting, directing, or going in advance.
In order to rule nations, a man must first learn to rule himself. —Confucius
So if you want to be a good leader first start by learning to lead yourself. Learn to be self-disciplined and temperate in everything you do and say. Secondly, learn to lead your family through love, service, and self-sacrifice. Work hard on your marriage and family relationships to make them the best they can possibly be. And then and only then finally learn to lead others outside your immeadiate family by the same principals of service and self-sacrifice.